I am having trouble finding a good avatar for my character. She doesn't have to have wings, just really light skin (like ivory!), white hair, and gray eyes. If someone could help me out, that would be great! Does anyone have some ideas?

Google Search DeviantArt.
That place most likely has what you are looking for.
That is, if you havent searched there already.

I did do that. I'm probably just too picky or something. I'll just have to look some more later. Thank you for the suggestion.

Its okay.
I definitely know how you feel.
Good pictures are hard to come by.
It just takes time. -_-